INTRODUCTION & PURPOSE
“This is partly about art. It’s partly about exploration and self-discovery—and occasionally, release. It’s part reality-check. But mostly it’s about wanting to know that you’ve mattered in this life.” —G. Kinnard
Greetings! My name is George Kinnard. Welcome to my personal journal and memoir! I chose the word coalescence for its title, because it refers to the union of diverse things into one body or form. That’s precisely where I’m headed with this blog: I want to knit together the disparate elements of my life into something that will make sense as a whole. I invite you to join me as I labor towards that end.
ABOUT ME
I’m an Overland Park, Kansas (USA) resident. I’ve been happily married to my wife Patty for twenty-two years now! (We’ve known each other for over thirty years!) I have two sons: Sam who is in his late teens and Brad who is in his early thirties. Sam is from my marriage to Patty; Brad is from a previous marriage. Brad has two sons himself—which would make me a grandfather. (Am I really old enough to be a grandfather?)
Patty and I are at once parents and caregivers for our son, Sam: he has autism and a seizure disorder. Sam is a wonderful young man who is a pleasure to be around—we’re very, very thankful he’s a part of our life! While it’s true that Sam brings us a great deal of joy on a daily basis, his disabilities have a great impact on all three of our lives as well.
I hold a bachelor’s degree from The University of Kansas with a double major of psychology and human development & family life. I also completed a specialty concentration of applied gerontology while at KU. In addition, I’ve done graduate work in psychology through the University of Saint Mary.
For the past several years I’ve been employed in aging/social services in a local senior (independent living) high-rise. I assist low income older adults with accessing programs and services that improve their quality of life and help them avoid premature institutionalization. There’s little chance that I’ll amass great wealth in my present position, but the job satisfies my very strong desire to do meaningful work and make a positive difference in people’s lives. This is my contribution to society.
In addition to my successes, I’ve had many failures. And although I’m very satisfied with the life I have, there are a lot of things that I regret. There’s a lot of events in my life that I’m still sorting out and working through, and that’s a major part of what I’ll be using this blog for.
With all that said, I should probably end here before this welcome turns into an essay. Enjoy my posts! I invite comment!
George Kinnard

Nice to meet you on WordPress. Thanks for following our blog (So Far From Heaven). Sorry it took me so long to check out your blog, it’s very interesting. I live in Olathe, myself. Best wishes to you for the new year!
Good to meet you as well! Jeanne—right? I’d been reading So Far From Heaven for some time before I “followed” it. I enjoy it a great deal! I find it a mix of the quirky and the cerebral—consistency AND never knowing what you’re going to get next! Really cool blog!
It’s so wild that we’re nearly just around the corner from each other! Maybe some day we’ll have a coffee!
Glad to meet you—we’ll talk again! Take care!
Hi, George. I’m naming you for the Sunshine Award — the very title makes me think of you! You can find the details at http://diabeticredemption.com/2012/01/28/the-sunshine-award/. Congratulations, my friend!
Hi, George! Here I am again, this time with the Candle Lighter Award, for your candor and openness about raising a child with autism. You can read about the award at http://diabeticredemption.wordpress.com/2012/02/16/thank-you-limebirduk/ Congratulations!
Thank you Judith! You are a kind and dear—and much appreciated—friend!
As are you, George. I am so happy to be alive in this time, where we can reach across the miles to find friends we might otherwise never have met!
Hi George, you have very informative place here……. I would like to thank you for visiting my space. I will be frequent to your space my friend…… God bless.:)
Zahir
Wasn’t sure where to put this note, but decided it would have to be here. I’ve just been hunting around your blog looking for posts about your work (not much there George – I’m sure this would be a rich source!). Anyway, came across the excerpt from my post about optimism in your side bar and I am feeling extremely humbled. It’s been really great to connect with you. It’s so good to read your varied, interesting and revealing posts and getting your insightful, supportive comments are something I look forward to. Knowing that you and Patty have been there with Sam – well there’s nothing quite like it, is there? So just wanted to say a BIG thanks.
Good! You found it! (I noted the quote in another reply to you.) We’ll talk some more “carefully” about work over time.
You are a very good write and I enjoy your work immensely! Please keep it up!
Just to let you know, I nominated your blog for The Versatile Blogger Award.
Congratulations! I’ve named your blog and you the Versatile Blogger Award. Come to http://diabeticredemption.com/2012/03/15/the-versatile-blog-award/ to see who else got it, and what you’re supposed to do. Of course, if you’ve done this before, or if you don’t feel like meeting all the requirements, please do as you wish, and no worries. Yay, You!
Thank you, Judith! You are so kind and generous! Another blogger had nominated me for it—I think while you were on vacation—so I’m already showing it on my site. As always, I appreciated you thinking about me! I’m so glad that you’re doing so well!!!
Thank you for liking my “InSight” post, George. I read the post about your father and the VA, and I’ll be reading the rest. My father served in the Korean War, too, and it wasn’t until a few years before he died, and our relationship healed, that things became clear.
Hi, George! I feel almost bad for doing this, as this page is full of this stuff, but I’m naming you for the Versatile Blog Award again, because of your fearlessness in sharing the different areas of your life. You can find the details at http://diabeticredemption.com/2012/03/22/the-versatile-blogger-award/. Please do not feel in the least obligated by this — that’s not why I’m giving it to you! Congratulations, George! Yay You!
Thank you, Judith! You are a dear-and-a-half!
George: I found your lovely blog via a link on Love Many Trust Few’s blog. What a treasure! You are a wonderful writer, and I’ve enjoyed reading several of your posts. I have two children as well — one NT and one autistic — so it is great to read about your experiences, being a few years further down the road.
Thank you for your kind words! I’m so glad to have you as a reader! I look forward to hearing more from you!
And yes, Rose Pearse at lovemanytrustfew is one in a million!
Hi George thanks for the lovely comment on my blog. So we share the rainbow that is autism
Sam and Bonita are people not different from others and yet so different. their thoughts and the way they see things is what makes our life different too…
loved what you wrote here and its always a pleasure to meet someone who knows what i mean when i write about Autism or kids in general.
Thanks for inviting me to your sphere ..looking forwad to more sharing and networking
wish you a lovely day
I’m baaaaacccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkk! I am awarding you the King of Kings Friendship Award. You can read about it at my blog at http://diabeticredemption.com/2012/04/22/the-honor-is-mine/ and you can get the button at http://diabeticredemption.com/?attachment_id=4717 . Thank you being such a good and supportive friend. Congratulations, and Yay, you!
I have nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award! Please feel free to accept or do nothing as you wish. Keep on writing!
http://frangipanisingaporenicum.wordpress.com/2012/05/12/versatile-blogger-award/
Thank you so much! Sorry it’s taken so long to get back with you! I appreciate you passing this award along to me!